Just Stop It!

In “Practicing the Way,” John Mark Comer introduces the Rule of Life as an ancient devotional practice as “a schedule and a set of practices and relational rhythms that create space for us to be with Jesus, become like him, and do as he did.”   For some, the easiest way to conceptualize a rule of life is a guide that helps direct our thoughts and activities. It is a calendar of sorts that is unlike our typical calendar because it is uniquely and specifically focused upon the spiritual aspects of our lives. In crafting a Rule of Life, we should think simply, modestly and focus on the things we need to remove. In other words, the Rule of Life is a calendar of things to stop.

     In some settings, employees are evaluated using the “stop, start, continue” rubric which identifies what behaviors need to be discontinued; what behaviors need to be initiated; and what behaviors should be continued. What are some things that you could, or more accurately should, stop doing to help you exhibit more Christ-like qualities? What would be the impact upon others if you could find just one thing to stop doing that would allow the presence of Christ to be revealed in your life?

   In John chapter 15, Jesus says “apart from me you can do nothing. If you do not remain in me, you are like a branch that is thrown away and withers…”. These words are poignant and powerful. As we ponder the words, I envision a dead branch that is still attached to a tree. It is usually discolored, slightly disfigured and usually has no leaves or fruit. If a dead branch falls from the tree, it can be used as kindling to start a fire. But a dead branch in a tree is often unreachable, seen but unsightly. It really seems to serve no purpose at all. Some dead branches are so weak they can’t even support the weight of a bird and without leaves, they can’t offer shade.  

     The words of Jesus remind us of the importance of our connection to God for vitality and purpose. Jesus’ words also remind us of the importance of community—being connected to God and being connected to each other. In crafting the Rule of Life, Comer asks not only what but whom would be important to incorporate in the process of building your Rule of Life? Obviously, God is primary in prioritizing our lives, but Jesus also had disciples with whom and for whom he prayed. Who are the disciples who accompany you on your spiritual journey? It may be really hard to stop some things without the support and accountability that comes with community.  

In Christ, 
Jon McCoy